Elder mediation for Sydney & NSW families
Respectful, inclusive support for families making decisions about an older relative's care, living arrangements, finances or wellbeing, with the older person's wishes at the centre.
Based in Sydney, NSW · sessions online across NSW and Australia
What elder mediation is
Difficult family conversations about ageing
When a parent or relative needs more support, families often have to make big decisions together. Siblings may see things differently or live in different cities. Old tensions can come back. The older person can also find themselves left out of conversations about their own life.
Elder mediation gives everyone a structured, respectful space to share information, raise concerns and plan together. Throughout, the older person's voice, dignity and rights remain central.
Topics families often discuss
- Care needs and who provides support
- Moving home, downsizing or aged care
- Sharing caring responsibilities and costs
- Managing finances and planning ahead
- Communication and visiting arrangements
- Planning documents such as powers of attorney, guardianship and wills, alongside legal advice
How it works
An inclusive process
Individual conversations
We speak privately with each participant first, including the older person where they are able and wish to take part.
Flexible participation
Family members can join online from different locations. Support people, interpreters and accessibility adjustments can be arranged.
Clear next steps
We help the family record what's agreed and who will do what. We also point you to legal or financial advisers where needed.
If you're worried about an older person's safety
Mediation is not appropriate where an older person is being abused, neglected or financially exploited, or where they can't take part freely. If you have concerns, you can call the national elder abuse phone line on 1800 ELDERHelp (1800 353 374) for free, confidential information and referrals. In an emergency, call 000.
Does the older person have to attend?
Where they are able and willing, we strongly encourage it, because these decisions are about their life. We can adapt the process to suit their needs, energy and preferences.
What if the older person has reduced capacity?
We'll talk with the family about how their views and wishes can still be heard and respected. Formal decisions about capacity, guardianship or substitute decision-making need legal or medical advice.
Can family members join from overseas?
Yes. Online sessions make it easier for relatives in different cities or countries to take part. We'll find a time that works across time zones where we can.
Plan together, respectfully
Talk to us about elder mediation and how it could help your family.